I tried to be romantic, carefully creating gifts, gestures and surprises, but guys are mostly bricks and steak&bj was always appreciated the most. Christmas, birthday, Valentine's, it's just a different bow on top.😀 But I'm thinking about how it all shifted with years of family life. He's worried when I come late from rehearsal or concert, takes always all the shopping off my hands, we often hug and watch our kids doing their thing..is that romantic? I'd guess growing comfortably old together is ultimately romantic.