I have my own relay on my server and citrine on my phone. Am I a cool kid?
Discussion
What relay do you run?
If I can configure a relay to pull all content for my followed npubs and push all my notes etc to my chosen set of relays I would definitely run one. I could then configure my clients to only talk to my relay if I wanted to.
I started with nostream and got to a point but it didn't quite do everything I want it to.
I just run a relay on my #Start9. I run two #Start9's, one for Bitcoin and one for data. I have a relay, #SimpleX server, #Synchthing amongstothers stuff.