I'm overly visual, and have been molested as a child. Until a man knows your child and has a relationship it's weird to offer help right off the bat. Predators put themselves in a position to look good and helpful. Now if it's been a while yeah he should want to be a father figure, but right away is weird. Favoritism is also a sign of grooming, so gotta watch for this shit. Especially in our new world, here I'm Canada they are pushing pedophiles are wrongfully judged. There are ads on Facebook saying change the stigma towards pedophiles. I truly believe it is prevalent amongst 50+ % of the population, so as a mom I'm so on guard. I'll die before I ever let it happen to my kids. I'm very thankful I have a good husband, and a good grandma. Children are treasures that have to be protected, and yes I sound crazy but straight up almost everyone I've met has been assaulted as a child or teen. So yeah I thank Jesus for my position in life cause otherwise I'd be having a heart attack.