I had to fly down south to help a relative with a health issue.

I’m at a Cracker Barrel for the first time, since it’s adjacent to my hotel. The 50-something waitress is calling me “baby girl” when asking if I need anything.

I texted my husband like, “there are apparently two people in the world comfortable enough to call me ‘baby girl’, you and this waitress.”

Southern hospitality tends to stand out for those that are not familiar with it. A couple years ago, my husband and I went down to South Carolina for a wedding, stayed at a random hotel, and in the parking lot as we walked up to it, a random couple that was leaving the hotel said “how y’all doin?” In the warmest possible tone. Up north, that kind of thing is rare. We just pass each other in parking lots. That’s our way. So we were like, “uh, good…” ::awkward smile::

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how's the food? 😄

Quite solid.

Not my normal fare, but when I travel I tend to let loose.

I’m from the south, and most of my family still lives there. I’m a proud new englander now (and have been for 15 years).

But that’s the thing that’s most missed/special. Most people are just genuinely nice to you out and about — and especially in places of hospitality (hotels, restaurants, etc). It’s a realness to it. Atlanta is a prime example of this IMO.

Everything is also a lot slower and people are less anxious down south. I think a lot of it attributes to overcrowded cities up North and the fast pace Hustle & Bustle lifestyle

I call my daughter by girl. She's 14 now. She'll probably always be my baby girl 🥹

good to hear that 3rd world immigration hasnt killed absolutely everything that america was yet.

What was it? 1st world immigration with rifles rape, theft, and murder?

anti-white retard

Ok dumb fuck

Yea i grew up in Alabama and that’s pretty normal

Same in Texas and Arkansas

People are just nicer

I loved Virginia Beach but outside of a bitcoin meetup strangers never really say hey

They just walk right past you

In the south you know your neighbors

When I lived in Virginia we never spoke to any of our neighbors at all

Very strange….

They aren’t nicer at all. Look how they vote. Period. The south sucks

At chick fil a if you eat inside they will valet and wash your car before you reach the 3rd nugget for free unbeatable service industry down here

The Lord’s chicken 🙏

The casual use of 'adjacent' is as on-brand as it gets, and why we love you Lyn. That vocabulary might not fly down south though. 😂

Classic Southern charm!

The thought of you writing your new take on fiscal dominance and the fed put while waiting on a country fried steak is, well…hilarious.

Sounds like Oklahoma?

Was thinking Oklahoma or Texas

Aww sugar, you have no idea…it is real until it’s not, and things go sour, or south if you will, quick. I love the Deep South, as I was born & bred here, but I can see where it can feel insincere and fake AF to visitors. That said, if you are ever down our way stop and “set a spell”, we’d love to see y’all.

Southern hospitality is a real thing. Generally speaking, the food is sooooo gooood at Cracker Barrel too… I hope you had a good experience.

Southern hospitality is a joke. As black folks….

Oh, there’s plenty of crap here too, and I have no doubt our experiences are different due to people’s bias and prejudice. Even so, a subset of us are significantly more hospitable than many find in other parts of the country.

Because you say so.

god bless the Carolinas🌅

Puke

It can be a “cover” for deeper thoughts and behavior. You have heard “bless your little heart” I assume?

one thing that surpsises people about Texas is how friendly everyone is

southern hospitality is jarring if what you're used to is indifference

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It was a shock for my wife to be called baby so much in the south. I have to translate southern for her sometimes 😂

I spent a little time in the Carolina’s after staying in NYC some years back. Like you I was really taken aback my the ordinary matter-of-fact polite Southern warmth. Made me understand the difference between Americans and America

Makes the North feel like a cold parking lot sometimes! 🫶

I’ve determined that the friendliness starts in Richmond VA.

DC the friendliest people are the homeless.

As JFK said, DC has the manners of the north with the efficiency of the south

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nothing hits you quite like a little dose of southern hospitality and some sweet tea

My in-laws used to live in Alabama and Cracker Barrel with the fam was always amazing, such friendliness all around🙌

Great story! I was just remarking today about how I said GM to two ppl in a row on my walk to my son’s school. See them almost every day. They never acknowledge my GM. lol. I’ll keep trying

Everyone in Kansas always called me “hon.” It drove me nuts 😆 not quite the south but felt like it for this California girl!