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I don’t like it when people are lying to me to try and sleep with me and I can tell…

you just told me that your extremely moderate and mostly unconcerned with politics and then you pretend you cannot wait to take me out to hear all of my anarchist musings when I respond that I am deeply political and philosophical *it is literally the crux of who I am*

Just be like “girl… I really just wanna Netflix and chill tbh.”

I would respect that more actually. Informed consent.

Kip Ashlynn 4mo ago

I promised a friend I'd go on at least one date in each city I'm moving to. Out here in the boonies I was surprised to find someone who had a lot of good looking credentials, studied multiple languages, lived abroad etc. like I had. I thought we would have a lot in common! After the first 15 minutes of the date it was painfully obvious that everything in his profile was complete fiction and he started acting like I was the asshole asking him questions and sharing my experiences... Which I thought was what we're supposed to do on dates. I wasn't being antagonistic. Apparently what he put in his profile was what he was planning on doing in the future, even though that's not how it was worded. I'm not sure what he expected to happen 🤷‍♀️

Men are confusing. I remain single 🤣

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MAKE SONGS LONGER 4mo ago

Or all they do is talk about themselves…

Kip Ashlynn 4mo ago

🤣 but honestly I don't mind that so much if they're being authentic and passionate. That's what makes me like them. But it has to be honest and authentic, even if I don't know the subject matter i can tell by the vibe.

kyle-moore 4mo ago

autistic rants should be a green flag

MAKE SONGS LONGER 4mo ago

I’m not talking about that. I’m talking about the terrible need for a man to merely…talk…about himself. The whole time. Red flag because it shows no interest in me. Like dude, why are you here? Oh yeah, one reason… not gonna happen. 🙅‍♀️

DagzTagz 4mo ago

It’s funny that you say that because I have noticed the men on bumble are big fans of the question game haha and I believe this is why maybe

MAKE SONGS LONGER 4mo ago

I think the women finally called it out at some point. Seems many didn’t get the memo. At least pretend to care… or get on an app where you can (ahem) get your needs met, my dudes.

DagzTagz 4mo ago

Ahhh man. That had to feel incredibly awkward. I would feel so, so awkward… the idea of that experience feels very unfair to you. That is the opposite of informed consent.

Ave Delphina 4mo ago

To be honest, I think both genders are really confusing to each other. I still can’t figure out what women actually want, even if we lived together for years 🤷‍♀️

Kip Ashlynn 4mo ago

It's true. People are confusing, especially when they're lying.

Ave Delphina 4mo ago

True. But people are so used to not being honest with themselves, they sometimes don’t know they are actually lying. Does it make sense?

Kip Ashlynn 4mo ago

I mean, my guy, if your dating profile is entirely fictional future faking you are at some level aware you have lied and are just hoping everyone else won't ask or notice. And luckily there will be strangers on the internet saying "he didn't know he was lying he's lying to himself" as if that makes it any better. He still sucked for doing that 😂