Yes I have seen that first hand. I started kicking people, most women, out of my life at any red flag. Better to keep the distance from those people, they live to make others crazy to pretend to be victims. Only choice is to kick them out forever and never speak with them again
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It's definitely good I think at least in the beginning of our healing to simply remove or not get involved with anyone questionable for sure. The risk is high of allowing someone toxic to be in our lives. As we heal, we naturally open up a little and can look closer to find the healthy people.