I'm doing great with the Plebstr app. It is quite intuitive. You should also take into account the Relays that you are or are going to use
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I don’t think Plebstr nor chosen relays currently solves any of the issues I mentioned. I think this needs to be done at the client level so individual users can choose what they see. Plebstr is a nice client though! Replies have much more context than in Damus currently