me:
am i intimidating?
Wifey:
no, not to me.
me:

me:
am i intimidating?
Wifey:
no, not to me.
me:

Modern women don't seem to like the word intimidating. They only know the definition "aggressive".
this is probably accurate.
my reply was meant to be lighthearted, but it i guess it highlights how differently things can be interpreted.
i think i understand the premise of your note. and although we approach the topic from two completely different perspectives—there is a fundamental truth we both share.
^.^