Which client supports NIP-17? I wouldn't be ghosting you ;D
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0xChat, Coracle, Amethyst, nosStrudel and Chachi do. not sure about others. can you send me a DM to test it? my autocompletion ain't working well and can't find you lol. i'm not sure if noStrudel defaults to NIP-17.
DM sent
that's a NIP-04 DM
noStrudel appears to not support NIP-17 https://github.com/hzrd149/nostrudel/issues/237
understandable, it's quite heavy computationally (2 encryption/decryption ops per gift wrap) and practically unusable with remote signers.
noStrudel does not support nip-17,its something that would be nice to have but DMs aren't the focus of the app

According to Coracle, I have only 1 chat and either that one is both nip4 and nip17 or it's the same nip4 I also see among the many other chats I see on noStrudel.
DMs a mess.
On Chachil.chat I see no DMs at all but found that they need to be switched on in the settings ... which I did but still can't see DMs at all.
DMs a mess!
Chachi does not support NIP-04, only NIP-17. did you set up private inbox relays? agree it's a mess.