You can keep the general relay list large if you want. The 3-relay limit is only for the first lists.
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I'm not sure other clients even offer that configuration per use-case
It's probably safe to say Amethyst is the goat.
Oh, thanks, I was just about to ask how the general list worked with that.
How does the 3-relay limit affect discovery? For example, a new nostrich comes in with wine, lol, and mom as relays. How well will their notes get out when they have no followers? I would say commenting to notes is the best way to be heard, but is that still an accurate statement?