I could make a way without own relay, just publishing on others... Only downside is not having it nicely grouped like momostr does.
Discussion
do you still use tumblr actively~?
No, used before big purge in the old days. I have it installed on mobile though and browse from time to time. I have tried bdsmrl, but wasn't able to pick my sphere of interest easily again. I guess discoverability problem isn't exclusive to Nostr 😅