A small group of us are trying to create a welcoming feed with wss://relays.land/spatianostra that doesn't mention bitcoin too terribly often, and if the topic does come up it's usually something actually informative. Most of the authors of the posts that get voted into the feed aren't people who demean, demand, or breathe catch phrases. There's even some who never discuss bitcoin. Branching out from there is still tricky, there are other relays like wss://hotrightnow.nostr1.com too. There is currently a lot of author/content overlap, though.

Some focus on more relay based feeds could go a long way, and its starting. The problem now being anyone who might be interested in creating these spaces has to run the bitcoin gauntlet alone before getting to a point that they can establish them. The other alternative is bitcoiners with enough conviction about free speech to the take some initiative to create these spaces. I have found (with my personal profile) that even hardcore bitcoiners like to talk about other things. They're just not very good at starting the conversations.

That didn't answer your question at all, but the solution to the problem is sitting in plain sight. So I'm beating that drum. 😊