Pretty much all the relays I've used with it have worked fine and I haven't experienced any downtime or service interruption. If you're running a basic free relay, it works. I use nsec.app, damus.io, and purplerelay.com and it works just fine.
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so youre ok with using a free service, trusting it with your data, that you cant replicate yourself. gotit..
cause the second that relay hits your list, it will be bombarded by stuff you didnt want.
What are you talking about? I'm talking about Amber. I have no problem with a free relay hosting public notes. They're public, not secret. Not sensitive. I specifically use paid speciality relays, including one I control, for DMs. I'm not sure what you're even talking about at this point.
dont worry about it.. i failed to explain.