People's dating advice: put yourself out there! Ask guys out! Make yourself available!

Also people's dating advice: guys want to chase! Give them a challenge! It's a game to enjoy!

Even more dating advice: just be yourself! Don't play games!

Fucking survivorship bias

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ugh... didn't mean to frustrate you...

also, for me, it's worse than survivorship biasβ€”it was literally just happenstance.

i'm very aware that i can offer nearly zero dating advice because i've only had one long term partner. but i can offer a lot of "how to stay together" advice lol

i wouldn't make it in today's dating landscape, so i empathize ;_;

It'll happen I have faith! πŸ™πŸ†πŸ™

People say all kinds of things. Just be yourself worked for me for years. Not playing games as well but then …

Some of us are weird AF. So πŸ˜‚

i think we're all weird here

:3

I would love it if everyone embraced their #weird fully and loved it. Gen

I think most here do a decent job of embracing their weird! Or maybe I only follow weird folks πŸ€£πŸ€”

The dating scene is super weird these days, but I still have faith and keep putting myself out there. It's like looking for your keys, it's always in the last place you look! Because that's when you stop looking πŸ˜