What's the cutest way to gift my sister and future BOL Bitcoin for their wedding?! #asknostr

This is a shamefully last minute wedding gift haha

I'm not buying them a hardware wallet

I don't have enough time to get her a sats card. I almost did anyway cause it's so easy, but the coin kite website seems to not accept lightning (???) so the fee to pay on chain is more than the card itself 😂

River seems to be only for US residents and they want my SIN

Open dime seems too techy, honestly even for me and they're ultra-normies . Also expensive and only in 3packs so that's out

I could make a hot wallet and make two backups of the seed, and they can take it out whenever they're ready to self custody. Or I can just destroy my copy when they have it. A bit annoying but maybe fine. I'm 99% sure this is what I'll end up doing

Unless are there any options I'm unaware of and missing?

😁 how do you all gift Bitcoin?

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I don't, but I almost bought one once and now I regret not doing that! A laminated QR would be ideal

It’s lame but my opinion is if they can’t be trusted with figuring out an open dime and you don’t want to use a custodial solution like river then I would t bother because the money will be lost. Lots of people have stories like this and it’s a bummer.

I can’t tell ya how many of my family members burnt the bitcoin I gave em on opendimes lol…

Ya it gets to be a bummer. Uncle Jim until proof of work lol

Yes

Oh nooooooo 😂

This is actually quite normal for how long I’ve been involved with the coin

AI make an anthropomorphic bitcoin with a grizzled beard smoking a cigarette with Kidwarp equally grizzled looking pictures of anthropomorphic bitcoins on milk cartons.

🤣

This is what grok made with this…

The horror!

Haha, honestly, then so be it. The other option was to give them a wine aerator. I think this is more meaningful, definitely more valuable and the chances that they keep it are higher than the chances that they lose it. Worst case it's a bummer and a funny(ish) story. And realistically, they're both pretty responsible people.

But as you say this it makes me think... of all the options I type out here, setting them up with a blue wallet, making 2 seeds (one for me and one for them) and holding it until THEY withdraw it and take custody is probably the best move to avoid lost btc. I did say I refused to get them a hardware wallet too but maybe I just bite the bullet and splurge on it 🤔 basically forces them to self custody and learn the minimum required to do so

Can go old school and make a paper wallet

#asknostr

most have venmo or PayPal these days. I'd gift them that way.

But that completely defeats the purpose! Lol

I suggest the GENESIS—built for something like this situation.

https://modulo.network

So incredibly cool 😍

You might have some luck with https://lightsats.com/ ?

Been a while, recommend you it out before you load up with too many sats 🙏

I didn't know about this one!! Thanks

You are welcome! Worked well the last time I tried it out 😛

A multisig wallet with some Bitcoin is actually a great metaphor for a marriage. I gifted my oldest friend and his bride Bitcoin in a 2 of 3 multisig setup. They can only access their Bitcoin together, it's impenetrable, and what it protects grows in value over time. I think they probably valued the letter more than the multisig setup.

That said, I wrote seven pages of instructions on how to rebuild and use their multisig. I wouldn't be surprised if the next time I visit, they ask I set it up for them.

What a beautiful gift! I love this idea 🥰

I did only test is now but I plan something similar. I run a LNbits instance and you have an extension LNURLw that generate withdrawal QR code (scan to withdraw sats to any lightning wallet). One option allows to generate vouchers that you can print, fold and glue to hide the QR code and you have instruction and must tore down the glued part to see the QR.

Then they can either withdraw the sats to their wallet (Phoenix, Breez, Blixt, WoS...) or if they don't scan with a wallet, it will open a custodial account for them on your LNbits instance.

You are the uncle jim bank, keep the sats for them until they withdraw them, and you can offer them to keep the sats even further for future sats they become on your instance.

This is fun! Love the tear-to-reveal. I don't run a LNbits instance unfortunately but maybe I look into this and figure out how to tear to reveal their seed . I'm pretty crafty haha

I just got notified that you can do something similar without LNbits, but it's more intended to give tips as you can fund cards on the go before handing them over and recover the sats if unused after a certain amount of time: https://tipcards.io/

I guess it's custodial but I didn't try yet.

Oh these is awesome!! Thanks for sharing

I would not gift them bitcoin if they are hyper-normies unless you want to learn the hard way😅

I will learn the hard way if I have to. 😂 but i have faith in them!

Nice shiny seed plate that you engrave yourself on stainless plate that you can purchase inexpensively from trophy shop or tag making company. Add a passphrase to the wallet that has reference and meaning to them. Put this passphrase on a second plate so it can be stored separately from seed plate. (make backups)

Like their marriage, the two parts make it whole, strong like steel, impervious to the elements.

I buy stainless plates custom cutwill be like 3X5" for less than $10 ea. They can then get a hardware wallet any time in the future.

Beautiful idea!!!