When did you know that you fell in love with your partner?

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First sight (not kidding)

Was it mutual?

Ha I never asked! But we’re still together after 10+ years marriage 😽

That's cute. You are like, I am in love with this person so much that I don't even care if they hate me lol jk Congratulations!

What is the secret to keeping the spice alive?

Great sex (also not joking)

😆 I mean I know they love me too, I just never asked if it was a first sight or not thing for them too.

Exactly when? Not sure, just happened gradually then suddenly, just couldn’t picture a life without them in it

our first "argument" is when i realized it. but it probably happened sooner.

What about this "argument" opened your eyes?

it was the first time ever that i didn't text Her goodnight or good morning and it ripped me to shreds.

Did you make sure that never happened again?

short-term, yes.

over the years i failed some more...

i still had a lot to heal from and learn at that point to be a true good boy...

Are you doing this work together?

yes~! ^^

we've come a long way together

That's good. 😊 Is there anything you feel you need to improve on going forward?

letting the vulnerability feel more natural.

identifying Her specific emotional need in the moment.

ensuring She always feels loved and cared for.

That's is beautiful. I wish you much progress in 2025. 🫂

thank you so much, Sarah~!

it's forever a work in progress. :3

and i wish you the best also—thanks for beautiful and engaging post. ^_^

When, in the early days of what could yet become a relationship, he took a really hard decision, showing me how serious his feelings were.

Do you think he ever felt resentful if it was something he had given up on his end?

In these 8 years, he never showed any regrets or resentment.

Sounds like it was worth it then. I wish you many blessings for the next 8. 🫂

That's sweet! Thank you, Sarah! 🫂