This sounds terrible.

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now you see why i'm in my room lollll

last thing to clarify: but also, it isn't terrible. the consent and boundaries part was extremely helpful. remember he said that in a controlled setting where I could then say no way with no pressure and he actually thanked me for taking care of myself. I don't think women get to experience that, maybe ever? which was the original reason I wanted to go. I think this type of scenario could be beneficial for a lot of people.

to say no and to be told no, gracefully, are skills