one time this much older guy (i don't even know his name lol) straight up said he'd like to "rub his hands intimately all over" me and i was just like, yeah buddy that's not gonna happen
if you're a pretty female it's kinda intense 😂
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This sounds terrible.
now you see why i'm in my room lollll
last thing to clarify: but also, it isn't terrible. the consent and boundaries part was extremely helpful. remember he said that in a controlled setting where I could then say no way with no pressure and he actually thanked me for taking care of myself. I don't think women get to experience that, maybe ever? which was the original reason I wanted to go. I think this type of scenario could be beneficial for a lot of people.
nostr:npub1jha738m0ley92vkysglh2llkvddz0wm60wcqa305new2az9c55cqr8xj6y just posted this lol
I agree!
to say no and to be told no, gracefully, are skills
He's really not supposed to say that in that setting.