While I agree that anyone can choose who to start a family with, regardless of age *on either side*, I don’t know who considers 35 a geriatric pregnancy 😂 If it is the medical establishment, well then I trust that designation even less.

I know countless women who had kids after 35, and they are amazing moms and in healthy relationships.

Often the older moms are actually better moms in many ways, being more mature, more secure in themselves, more experienced in life and in relationship.

The bigger age gap you suggest also can becomes a huge issue later on when the women is just 45 and her husband is 70, or she is 55, still young, and he is 80.

All that aside, if a guy gets to 50 without a wife or kids, perhaps he needs to ask himself why? And once he becomes the person a woman wants to marry, perhaps think twice about purposely trying to put a young woman in a situation where she has a *true* geriatric as a husband when she is in the prime of her life, her 50s!