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MAHDOOD

Of course we do lol you crazy? 😂

Can’t talk to women the same way we talk to men.

JoySun 2y ago

Why tho?

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Modus 2y ago

Do you think men and women's brains are exactly the same?

If the answer is no, then how do you think they became different?

JoySun 2y ago

I dunno. Too philosophical lol. What's your answer to that?

But I meant was do we start talking differently based on the other person's gender?

Modus 2y ago

I think male and female brains are different, and I think we evolved to detect the gender of the other person and treat them differently based on that. We don't necessarily HAVE to, but it's our biological proclivity and it's difficult to overcome.

MAHDOOD 2y ago

I want to add to this. A man talking to another man who happens to be his boss will sound very different than it would talking to a stranger. It’s all circumstantial.

JoySun 2y ago

Sure.

JoySun 2y ago

hmm interesting!

I'd like to hear more about this.

JoySun 2y ago

Is it biological or social conditioning?

mark tyler 2y ago

I think the data indicates that there is a component of both, my vague remembering was that biological is a bigger factor

JoySun 2y ago

Hmm okay

Modus 2y ago

Yep.

MAHDOOD 2y ago

We’re just different. If I started talking to a girl about fantasy football, she’d probably get bored. If the same girl talked to me about makeup I wouldn’t care.

JoySun 2y ago

Not the content only. But how you talk.

MAHDOOD 2y ago

Well if I talked to you the way I talk to my friends you’d be very uncomfortable 😂

Remember that our sense of danger is different too.

JoySun 2y ago

I don't doubt that. But how do you talk to a man and a woman you met for the first time? Say, they're very similar with other things.