Of course we do lol you crazy? 😂

Can’t talk to women the same way we talk to men.

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Lol you crazy

Why tho?

Do you think men and women's brains are exactly the same?

If the answer is no, then how do you think they became different?

I dunno. Too philosophical lol. What's your answer to that?

But I meant was do we start talking differently based on the other person's gender?

I think male and female brains are different, and I think we evolved to detect the gender of the other person and treat them differently based on that. We don't necessarily HAVE to, but it's our biological proclivity and it's difficult to overcome.

I want to add to this. A man talking to another man who happens to be his boss will sound very different than it would talking to a stranger. It’s all circumstantial.

Sure.

hmm interesting!

I'd like to hear more about this.

Is it biological or social conditioning?

I think the data indicates that there is a component of both, my vague remembering was that biological is a bigger factor

Hmm okay

Yep.

We’re just different. If I started talking to a girl about fantasy football, she’d probably get bored. If the same girl talked to me about makeup I wouldn’t care.

Not the content only. But how you talk.

Well if I talked to you the way I talk to my friends you’d be very uncomfortable 😂

Remember that our sense of danger is different too.

I don't doubt that. But how do you talk to a man and a woman you met for the first time? Say, they're very similar with other things.

Well, come to think of it, maybe we should talk about the fact that you feel okay to "jokingly" call me crazy.

And whether you would have said the same if I were a man.

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This reaction makes me think I should be more restrictive in what I say to you now. Point proven 😂

Well, you didn't answer the question. Would you have said the same to a guy? Or a guy friend?

Yes

I think besides gender. It's also individually based. Generally, saying "crazy" is not a good way to go.

It is based on the individual but I think most guys in general don’t mind.

And I knew you'd say what you said. Lol.