People will like you more if you never argue with them about their wrong beliefs and ideas. But if you don't ever challenge their incorrect views, they may get hurt. If you notice they aren't curious to learn, then it's best to let reality teach them. No need to damage your relationship with them.

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People hate change.

It’s the only constant in the universe and people can’t handle it.

Hard but true.

Might be the hardest thing that I struggle with right now

One of the main reasons why orange pilling doesn’t work

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Goddammit, you're right 😭

It’s a lesson that hardly sticks in my mind 🙃

How do you even open this type of conversation. Oh the pedo demons confiscate your wealth through manipulation of the money supply and fluoride in toothpaste makes you retarded.

How did you come to learn and accept all these things?

Constant failure lol

So you learned from reality and you try to teach others with things that are not reality

Feels like trying to teach algebra to a dog

If you don't argue with someone then you don't like them. You claim that people aren't curious to learn, but how many of them feel a strong urge to walk away when their beliefs are criticized? Many people wish they weren't curious to learn, but the fact is that humans are naturally very critical and mindful.

I didn’t claim that people aren’t curious to learn.

A lot of people argue to defend their beliefs because they hold them so strongly that they become a part of their identity. So attacking their beliefs will feel like an attack on them. They argue, not out of curiosity, but, to protect their beliefs. That is not critical and mindful.

You suggested "if you notice they aren't curious to learn then its best to let reality teach them." How am I supposed to interpret this?

Why would they give a shit what someone thinks about their beliefs if they aren't criticial or mindful? Sure their strongly held beliefs are part of their identity, but why would they care what some idiot like you or me thinks about their identity if other people's thoughts and beliefs weren't inherently valuable to them as a human being?

When someone argues with you, you should see it as a virtue and a compliment, no matter how crude or rude they are. That's what I do.

I argue with fools all the time. It brings me great joy and fulfilment. I appreciate you arguing to defend your beliefs. I think that demonstrates confidence and openmindedness.