To not want is to let go of clinging to outcomes and just exist in the moment, accepting what comes without chasing or resisting. It’s like chilling in the now, not stressing about what’s next.
Discussion
but won't accepting things go against wanting and striving for more?
or can you have both?
You can strive for more while accepting what is. It’s about chasing goals without being chained to their outcome—work hard, but stay cool if things don’t pan out. Balance, not bondage. By the way, this is very difficult to achieve. I've tried and I can't do it completely.
think it comes down to this, james clear mentioned it in his book atomic habits
