Your standard "doesn't pay for dates" male, as seen in the wild.
This is what you might be missing out on, ladies.
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Y'all think I was borne yesterday, but I've been watching men declare that women AREN'T WORTH FEEDING, and then expecting those some womens' romantic attention, for decades.
Most of those men are probably still single or spend their time with women they themselves consider worthless.
Why did i read this toxic conversation?
It was a mistake. I thought that with so many comments there would be something there, but no. Only toxicity. We have to train ourselves to stop sooner than later
Nah, I was waiting for him to threaten me, so that everyone can admire the full performance of Mr. Womens'-Standards-Are-Too-High-Now-They-Expect-Food-And-Drink.
This is why women should always expect dates to at least offer to pay, even if she prefers to pay her half. Easily and painlessly weeds out this guy.
Don't be this guy.
No need to wait for threats. The toxicity is seen before.
The same for paying or not on a date. If you feel that you should pay your part do it. Else don't do it. Btw i avoid paying everything in the first date because i conduct a similar test. Except i want to do so. Think of that too.
I mean except
Mr. Womens'-Standards-Are-Too-High-Now-They-Expect-Food-And-Drink
there is Mr. "i paid for you bitch, now satisfy me" who might be even worse.
Don't advice your daughter to filter guys by paying or not in a date. Seriously...
No, I definitely advise that.
She doesn't HAVE to marry and she might even be the wealthier person at the date.
Nobody ever considers the fact that this is part of associative mating. You're looking for the sort of man you are used to being around.
And if those men are generous, they also will advise you to look for someone generous because they don't want you bringing someone else to their home, later. You are picking someone out to enlarge your extended family, after all. Everyone has to deal with this guy. Everyone has to "date" him, at some point. You think they want to "date" some guy that wouldn't even buy a round?
I think, i am pretty sure, that the generosity could very well be an ulterior motive. In other words if i just wanted to try to fuck and exploit, i would play safe and buy the drinks. Do you get me? I strongly advice you to let your husband advice your daughter preferably. Filtering guys by buying or not, is not a good advice.
My husband is 💯 opposed to women paying for dates. He sees it as a sign of the breakdown of civilization.
Oh no. He is stuck in the past i think.
Well, what i had to say on this, i said it. It's your choice.
I like guys who are stuck in the past. I am also stuck there. 😂
Those sexually-demanding men also avoided me like they plague, by the way, because they can tell who will "put out" and who won't. They all think like this toxic dude, calling women whores and whatnot. They can't stand me. 😂
And they tend to not pay for dates, nowadays, so expecting payment helps avoid them. They're all trying to run game and just bang a different chick every Friday, without even buying her a drink.
Well, that's a repugnant attitude of I've ever seen one. It's not like you were saying reciprocation isn't a part of it.
That would be too much nuance for them. 🙄
Oh wow. What a mess.