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Pre marriage, I thought I would have been okay to be away from my spouse for a season if needed, like a few weeks or such, if it was visa related.

Now I know that's not true!

Saw a post from someone on Facebook who recently got married, and the wife needs to go back to her home country in may to get a new visa, and wants to bring her husband so he can see where she grew up, but they're low on money.

My heart wanted to pay their tickets, my mind is trying to figure out how I can get enough fiat to pay our own bills. Not quite compatible 😅

But one day, my dream is to be able to bless people financially so they can stay together with their family, if I see an opportunity to help out.

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_ 10mo ago

Very kind of you

Mephi 10mo ago

I always find it strange when couples choose to be apart, especially for long periods.

I know it's not by choice in this instance, but I know so many couples who do choose to do it, which makes me question their decision to be together in the first place haha.

Different strokes for different folks tho I suppose.

I'm sorry for your friend's situation, but am sure they will find a way, or be all the more in love when they reunite after their forced time apart ❤️

AnnSofiNovelist 10mo ago

Yeah, I have a hard time getting that too. I have learned that there are different types of marriages, and one type I think is called missional, and they basically do their own things and then come together at times.

That wouldn't work for me, cause I'm a high quality time person.

I'm so happy my husband and I both wanna be together all the time, cause it makes it so much easier.

Mephi 10mo ago

Yeah we're the same. To the point of getting ridiculed sometimes. The nicest reaction is some version of a patronising "aww you guys are so cute" but whatever, so be it hahaha.

It wouldn't work for us otherwise. Sounds like we're as lucky as you and your husband. We've found someone compatible who we also happen to love dearly and enjoy spending time with, and everyone else is just jealous 🤣

AnnSofiNovelist 10mo ago

Exactly!! I'm glad to know there are more awesome couples like my husband and I.

Shortly before I met my husband IIstated that I wanted to be in such a couple that causes people to think that "the One" is a thing.

The One is not real, a good marriage takes work, but is totally worth it!

I like that our marriage can inspire people to know that it is possible to actually have an amazing marriage, especially in the current culture!

BaleNorge 10mo ago

God wanna help those who help themselves.