Ok I have an update on message privacy thanks nostr:nprofile1qqsdaw38re28weaadk8wca0weetptke30gpmql69jy6tq0njxcq9v4gpzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejsz9rhwden5te0wfjkccte9ejxzmt4wvhxjmcf59eu0 for the advice.
I installed Ox Chat, signed with Amber,
Now my messages are nip17(?)
So they can't be seen with the npub
That includes contents and when I send a new message (or receive I think)(still need to test that) the new message including person's name etc are no longer visable.
What's more, I don't need to make the message in oxchat,
Instead I can do it on primal or amethyst and it has the private nip17 option in purple next to the message box. Which is neat, cause I can message someone off their profile for example instead of opening oxchat and trying to route it that way.
I think this has fixed the message privacy issue.
Now to deal with the posts...
I now understand that all posts are public facing for ever signed by me.
In future ( looks at the tech nerds)
It would be great if we have an option for only showing to followers.
Or making it private.
That will change the game for growing the user base.