i’m really not sure how so many people deem their 20s the best decade of their life…

what am i doing wrong? 🥲

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Age doesn't mean a lot. Personally, I am enjoying my 40s the most so far in many ways. It's just different. My 20s were great in some ways. 30s were great in others.

My 20s were spent in the army. But my 40s have been great, too. My kids are a huge contribution to my current happiness and sense of fulfillment.

Raising kids in my 20s was the best part for me.

And probably the most tiring

That too.

You're probably not doing anything wrong. The world just dealt the younger generations a bad hand. Blame the gubment and the Marxist beliefs that they and corps instill into everyone.

20s were my most difficult by a long shot

Suffer-maxxed my 20s to unlearn everything from generations of fiat culture, greatest decision ever.

I don't remember my 20s. What a ride!

In my 20s I was living in co-op squats with my anarchist rave buddies, standing on our dining room tables reading philosophy manifestos

I highly recommend doing something like this with your buds

everyone has a meaning crisis in their 20s 🥲🫂

It wasnt :) and also i dont remember much of it cause of the drugs.

I just left the 20s club in January. I enjoyed the decade, was a rollercoaster for sure. Will be interesting to look back on the 20s in 5 years when I'm halfway through 30

I’ve always heard your 30s are better than your 20s & your 40s are even better than your 30s

All of it has been fun. The best time is rightttttt now. and now... and now.

Failing to appreciate how easy staying in relatively good shape is.

You get a lot with age and experience. But you stop being able to do things like run for an hour without stretching for almost that long.

I'd not say my 20's were the best though; that makes me question what those other people are now doing wrong.

Nothing

It gets better as you get smarter and wiser

If you let yourself get dumber and more numb, then maybe you look back at it and say where did it all go.

Find the people who say the best is yet to come

I agree with Eric nostr:nprofile1qythwumn8ghj7enfd36x2u3wdehhxarj9emkjmn9qyxhwumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmvqqsph6fjv9504a84auv8wz43v0lzcf4uqjwjz2vpscmhehqr80mfv9qsep3n7 It's easy to look back on a time with the least responsibility and the most frivolity as the "best" when you aren't growing as a person year over year. My 20s were great, and sometimes I have nostalgia, but the depth of relationships and experiences that come with growing purpose and responsibility only come with time and, with effort and patience, become more profound as you go.

Dude, I just noticed a viking asked you on a date via Zap, I've never seen this before. Nostr first?

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maybe?

for me, certainly- and i’m not sure how to take it tbqh

Well you’ve got some extra sats!

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