I’m using Damus and nothing wrong with it.
Couple of other people have said they too are getting errors with your relay dude.
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What does nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 use that’s better than Damus?
I'm not saying Damus is bad in any way, this is just nostr:npub1el3mgvtdjpfntdkwq446pmprpdv85v6rs85zh7dq9gvy7tgx37xs2kl27r twisting things. If Damus connects twice in a row to a relay that's almost not even a bug (although I think it shouldn't do it).
But I'm not even sure this is the issue, it could very well be on my side and I thought she could provide information to help me debug that, but instead what I got was some weird aggressive message.
Btw, I am actually curious what client you use. We like to test everything here.
Also, I completely understand if you don’t want to say this in public.
Well, if you say there is nothing wrong with it who am I to disagree?
But your relay is still showing an error?
I don't see any errors.
Right now for me it’s showing this 
Rugged again.
You need to be on dark mode 
I wont venture into the dark side.
What the heck is going on then, if mine keeps showing error?
I think it’s on Damus side. I don’t see it on other clients but I have seen the connection error on Damus.
There’s a known bug when you have follows>1k and relays>10. Not sure if that’s the issue here
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