Good morning! Thank you for sharing and yes, such an important reflection, even if it is painful. I feel you...! Yes, it may be that it has nothing to do with us when the other person decides to leave us. But it can also be a sign that we give too much and forget to love ourselves.

Unconsciously, it can happen that we also think that we "control" others by giving love. Even if we believe that we give so much, that does not mean that it stops the person from leaving or hurting us... Just a thought, a pattern that I discovered in myself years ago, or rather uncovered and transformed.