A little sad that there's no socially acceptable token for showing voluntary submission. Until collars become a common part of everyday outfits, I'll have to make do with a wedding ring. It doesn't have the same taste to it though. #suchisalifeofsub
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i feel ya. She bought an inscribed bracelet for me that i absolutely adore.
but actually, i think i like the secrecy better. let the actions make them guess. :3
Yeah, 'show, don't tell' works well for relationships too. Still... the bracelet being the shared secret must be a treat to have. I am a sucker for rituals, so having something to put on (private or not) would be nice for anchoring one's mind to his decision.
it does in a way.
it's always fun when people try to read it. ^.^
i treat it as a second wedding band.