So I'm smoking this joint before I get my blanket out of the dryer and go to bed....

And I realized something...

(I'm not very good at communicating with other humanoids)

How can I work on this?

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I'm not either, but I connect with the right humans. That's the main thing.

Also I have social anxiety and I find sativa dominant hybrids best for social anxiety.

Examples; sour diesel, strawberry coffee, green crack

Strawberry cough not coffee..

Wait, humans are supposed to communicate? Well that explains a lot

Yeah, I didn't get the memo either.

#IntrovertSquad

Feels good to relate with others, and find solace in suffering sometimes. Especially as we've made it this far in life without any calamity occurring, and being as social bonds and behaviors almost systematically define our species. #ExtrovertForAlways

communication is a skill, so the most effective way is to practice!

like i’m bad at communicating bc in my childhood parents left me by myself pretty often 🫠

I was homeless 19-24.

😅

What part of it do you struggle with?

In person?

Just all of it.

I'd rather be in a quite room than verbally speaking to anyone...I'm usually pondering ideas/thoughts/self reflections, bitcoins future, etc etc.

*washing hands before going in a flower room

Coworker - "Hey how's it going?"

Me - "Yeah you too man."

🥴

"Small talk" I guess you'd call it?

Teach someone to speak English. That's how I got better at small talk and I've got the auties. Everyone is coming into that interaction with a handicap and the intent of both parties is to improve. In my case I also made a friend.

I've also found reading what I type outloud to be very helpful. There was a disconnect between my writing voice and speaking voice as I was so much more than speaking. When I had social awkwardness and in the moment knew if I could only write it out it would be clear I got so frustrated. Bringing them to the same level of competence was really helpful.

You could read some books, it helps with communication issues mate