This is my first crosspost and perhaps my last, but dang is it good nostr:npub1nq90y5sz82dfyewkr73l7gnf95yjt9nlf68z7nnms7qnxyee6yzqwhpwqf
https://x.com/BenHart_Freedom/status/1759203169773506693?s=20
weak pathetic male. poor girl handles it like a champ.
dude literally sacrifices his four family's wellbeing for his own sick obsession and then dares say "i didn't abandon them…married couples get divorced"
yeah the glad assumption of sacrifice FOR OTHERS is really obvious bruh
and yes, that's real trauma, that's an adverse childhood event, and the body keeps score.
It sounds like this video struck a sensitive chord for you.
It also sounds like you might not have watched it.
Anyway, hope you have a nice day 🙂
It did. But did watch it except skipped his gyrations and dunno what you're getting at.
Divorce, especially "oops we're not compatible" divorce, is quite traumatic to the kids. Time stability commitment and presence >>> cash.
Abandoned not as in legalese. He abandoned his post in the home. Yes there's a gradient of badness.
Dude says "hey, kids are fine becauese…accolades" Yeah brosky that's not the measure of doing fine 😞🤦♂️
I understand your perspective regarding love versus material support and I don't think divorce is nbd. It is undoubtedly traumatic for children, but the main point of the video was around the inaccuracies of the original. It could be that both of them are not telling the whole story. I am in no position to judge them.
I could see clearly that the father and daughter still love eachother despite the challanges they have faced.
Are you familiar with shadow work?
shadow work sounds like she's paying him to react to get more views, but first time hearing the term in this context
i'm sure they're both amicable. i can't judge people's situations and motives, but trauma is trauma, and divorce isn't something to make light of. impacts will be felt by his grandchildren/ggc if any. so overall disliked his take.
I see your point now. Divorce has been normalized in our society to a very unhealthy degree.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. I learned something from it and I appreciate that.
Shadow work is a process of uncovering the root cause of thIngs that get under our skin. If you're curious about it I have a recording explaining it to the best of my ability.
