Subnostr

Reflecting on a few situations regarding joining Nostr nests, I realized I am just not the type of person who likes to communicate with several people at once. I need to fully concentrate on one person, actually. I also work best in a quiet environment with no one around. Everyone is different here, and I think I've found my truth and wanted to let you know. Instead of blaming myself for not joining, I now respect my way of communicating and live by that. So, if anyone wants to talk, I'll grab a blanket and tea, and I am all ears! :)💜

Anyone else?

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I’m with you :)

🫂🫂

De plus il manque tous les autres signes naturels qu'on véhicule en communication

Absolutely 💯

🟠 isolabellart 2y ago

Sis 🫂

Must be awesome, drawing paintings alone in peace for you, I can only guess! 🎨✨🫂

🟠 isolabellart 2y ago

You've got DM

same. I’ve always preferred being with 1-3 people more than being with a group.

Same, just when the group is filled with people I really trust, I tend to shine brighter :)

Pareil

I've never been to a nest. But I always like to be in contact with my conversation partners. Ideally, one person. It's also nice if I can see facial expressions and gestures. I think in a discussion group like the nests, you also can't see when someone wants to speak and how what is being said is being received. This creates confusing conversational situations. I also enjoy 121 conversations. But nests are of course also great opportunities to make contact.

Yes, facial expression is helpful, especially when talking to several people at once!

I don’t want to interrupt anyone, talk too much or not being able to say what I wanted to say & with one person on the other line it’s easier!

So maybe, listening only in nest!

Hope you find some time to check nests out :)

🙏🏼 we will see 😉😀

💯 agreed

I’m introvert when it comes to that

Im not too introverted actually!

And we should definitely phonecall one time - as long as you would feel good about it! 🫂

most certainly.. that does seem like a good idea

I totally get this too lovely 🥹💜💜🫂 I’m better at and prefer one on one conversation too 🫂🫂🫂🫂

Absolutely, everyone is different 💜💯🫂🫂🫂🫂

Would kinda love to talk to you dear! :))🥰🫂💜💜

I would love this! 🥹💜🫂 I do private nests with Mallory sometimes and honestly it’s such a lovely way to get to know someone when they’re so far away ☺️💜💜🫂

Would lovely to do a private nest with you some time lovely! And of course if I go Madeira we could go for some tea too ☺️♥️

Seems great! Let’s chat & we will sure find some time :)💜💜

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mrecheese 🧀 2y ago

Same. Serial, not parallel. One topic, finish it, then the next.

That’s a good strategy! 👌

And nice to meet you, MrEcheese! 😁

mrecheese 🧀 2y ago

Likewise. And, for the sake of spreading the fake cheese love, it's MRE cheese. The jalapeño variety is the best. 👌

Noted! :D :)

Kill yourself, whore

il_lost_ 2y ago

Nest DM 😅

What do you mean ?

I can understand that, and I respect your self-awareness and willingness to express it to us. Nests makes me a little anxious, because I talk too much once I get over myself! I prefer to listen. But one thing I learned at farmers markets (peddling our honey), be yourself/myself. There will forever be lovers, haters, those who DGAF. Life goes on; find your place and state your case (as you did ♡).

Aww lovely written BitBees 💜💜🫂🐝

Some may perceive my self reflection here as just being scared, or not wanting to leave comfort zone, but it’s not!

A group of enthusiastic people talking about stuff is nice to listen to, but I have a hard time to chat with them, it just doesn’t give me much, I just probably expect a different experience from conversations.

But as soon as I talk to one of that people one to one, I can talk comfortable and freely and get myself a worthy outcome from the conversation :)

But you’re right! Be yourself.🥰

This is why I #nostr, because of people like you ♡.

That’s incredibly sweet bitbees, sending a big warm virtual hug overrrrr to uuuuuu💜💜 this made my day :)

liminal 🦠 2y ago

Same here! Always thought it was just me! 🫂

Nope! 😊 actually realizing it is relieving

MysteryLiezer 2y ago

I’ve only been exploring Nostr for about 7 minutes, and I’m extremely curious!

I do plan on dedicating a decent amount of time towards learning about Nostr (in general), and would love the opportunity to sit down and discuss some of my thoughts with you :)

Welcome! 💜

Surrealistic Menina 2y ago

It depends in my case. Sometimes I like to be surrounded by people, others I just want quietness and silence.

What is important is either way, to fell comfortable and accept who we are, regardless.

I like tea, and blankets and coziness 🫠🥰🫂

I missed this! 😱 thanks for sharing your thoughts! You’re right💜 let’s accept ourself no matter what 🫂🫂

Surrealistic Menina 2y ago

Yes 😊 🦋🫂🫂🫂🫂