😂 That story was just all over the place.
You're sometimes extremely helpful and generous, it's true, but you're sort of volatile. Part of chivalry is keeping your cool.
Discussion
Some of the guys on Nostr, who always strike me as particularly chivalrous, are probably MichaelJ, Vitor, and Derek.
That's probably why they've sort of stumbled their way into being Nostr clan leaders. 😂
Like... it's really low-key, but people can sense it, and then they automatically extend trust and cluster around you because you seem like a safe space.
And it's not just women. Everyone likes someone chivalrous. And chivalrous men are chivalrous to everyone. That's why it hasn't died out, or stopped being an attractive personality trait, but is simply more elusive. Driving up the "price".
It costs a man more, to be chivalrous, so being chivalrous means more. It carries more information about his true character.
yeah, nobody likes the Diogenes and the polemicists. even if they are kind and helpful. the cynicism is tiring, but cynics tend to be very tired.
nostr:nprofile1qqsr7acdvhf6we9fch94qwhpy0nza36e3tgrtkpku25ppuu80f69kfqppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qy0hwumn8ghj7mn0wd68yttjv4kxz7fwv3jhyettwfhhxuewd4jj7qg3waehxw309ahx7um5wgh8w6twv5hsleq7kw is a consumate gentleman and a leader of men.
He literally treats hoes like housewives. And housewives like housewives. And other men, like housewives. And little children like housewives. And rabid feminists like housewives. And angry, bitchy devs like housewives. And random Joe Flow on the street like housewives. Crazy person screaming around the subway? Yup, gets the relentless, unshakeable, housewife treatment.
Everyone gets the
Full Derek Housewife Gold Standard Treatment™
Cuz Derek treats all people the way Derek thinks people should all be treated. And if you don't like it, well, then have a GM and GFY, brother. Ain't nobody got time for that. There are other people waiting for their share of the Derek Treatment, so take a number and go back to the end of the line.
Next.
Amen. Amen. The end.
You give me a lot of credit but I'm nowhere near perfect. I try to be helpful and nice but I'm also an asshole sometimes and I do make mistakes.
And he's humble, too.