I can. But give me time. Still working ☺️

First and foremost not everythng we want is what we need.

I believe the universe works in vibration. For a match to met, that vibration must be at sync.

We all have our wounds to deal with. When we are vibrating from a position of lack, which traduces in wants, ( I want something so baaad, is vibrating from a place of lack), the universe cannot make the encounter of a match to happen, but the encounter of people that are supposed to shaken our world and prepares us for our match

Sometimes, we want someone so badly, and we focus our attention so heavily in that specific person,( we think it's our match but it's not), that we are not open to receive our match, even if it passes by, we will not see it, we are blind.

From this "blindness" space, we think that the person we want is our match and has the qualities we need in another, but it's self-deception .

Since the person we are focused on does not want us, and we desperately try to manifest it, the universe brings copies of that person that we want, and not what we need. Manifestation cannot have a face....but the essence, qualities, of another we need.

Example, I wish for a loving person, loyal, respectful, truthful, kind, responsible etc .. but when I am trying to manifest this person, I am always thinking of someone I lost, that I want, that was intelligent, kind but not loyal and definitely not respectful nor responsible.I think this person is loyal, respectful and responsible, but the universe knows better. The universe knows that in essence the person I want is not what I think she is ( loyal, responsible, respectful). But I want that person back, and I want, and I what, and I want ! So, I am always thinking in that specific person that has a face and a body. The universe trying to answer my call, gets confused, and brings to me, people, similar to that person, physically, in essence and in qualities. Similar, not the same, since we are all unique, there are not 2 people alike. Plus, we think that, the person in our mind is loyal, kind, responsible, respectful caring, loving etc...but she is not. So, what we are manifesting, unaware, is an irresponsable unloyal, disrespectful person into our life, that is not our match and has not the qualities we wish in another.

A match can cross our path , when a sync happens, but if we not healed we will have not the hability to accept it. And yes, we can loose it forever, depending on the way we behave.

Also, Imagine you love sexy blond skinny women, but your match is brunette, not skinny and not sexy. You like brown eyes, but your match has green eyes. You would never look to that woman, you probably would not even give it a chance. it's not your type.( But it's your match Lol )

Imagine you just want a girl between 30 and 35, but your match is 50?

In other cases, the encounter never happens because healing did not took place, so the vibration has never got into sync, and it cannot be manifested .

The Universe always brings experiences we need to evolve and heal. But some of us instead of seeing the blessing, get defensive, sad, bitter and even closed off.

The refusal to heal, makes the Universe bring the same experience, in different bodies, over and over again, until we learn and break the pattern. We can't have the same behaviour and expect different results.

I hope I making sense. 😀

This is the longest response I ever gave to someone over the internet...lol