If you intentionally go out looking for problems and drama, youāll surely find them.
If you instead focus on constructive stuff, then some problems and drama will still find you because life is life, but usually way less.
If you intentionally go out looking for problems and drama, youāll surely find them.
If you instead focus on constructive stuff, then some problems and drama will still find you because life is life, but usually way less.
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100%
You reap what you sow, ofc the weeds will still grow. But less so if you donāt nurture them.
Reminds me the lyrics from the Metallica song āSlitherā. āDonāt go looking for snakes, you might find them. Donāt turn you eyes to the sun, you might blind themā
I prefer to watch the drama from the balcony.
that approach served me well in high school
I regularly invite drama out of my life. I have way less now. Like you eluded, shit happens, but itās no longer a flow.
Plus, like the hobos of old marked inhospitable houses in hobo code, it seems the drama sources communicate that their time is wasted on you and they just move to other, more receptive, people.
we will encounter some problems. but if we are willing to fight and solve them. we will take hits in life but we will respond.
We will find what we look for. šÆ
Lyn advice is good advice.
You canāt avoid having problems but you can get better ones. I call these āQuality Problemsā.
Bring on the drama. I'm bored.
Facts
Life is consciousness and consciousness is movement.
Interesting. What's your viewpoint on ignoring the trolls vs engaging them
Thoughts create reality, indeed.
Attitude works wonders
āIf you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark that is all you will ever seeā
Seek and ye shall find.
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