If you intentionally go out looking for problems and drama, you’ll surely find them.

If you instead focus on constructive stuff, then some problems and drama will still find you because life is life, but usually way less.

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Too many people that need to hear this, won't

Those that seek will find it

100%

You reap what you sow, ofc the weeds will still grow. But less so if you don’t nurture them.

Reminds me the lyrics from the Metallica song ā€œSlitherā€. ā€œDon’t go looking for snakes, you might find them. Don’t turn you eyes to the sun, you might blind themā€

I prefer to watch the drama from the balcony.

that approach served me well in high school

I regularly invite drama out of my life. I have way less now. Like you eluded, shit happens, but it’s no longer a flow.

Plus, like the hobos of old marked inhospitable houses in hobo code, it seems the drama sources communicate that their time is wasted on you and they just move to other, more receptive, people.

we will encounter some problems. but if we are willing to fight and solve them. we will take hits in life but we will respond.

We will find what we look for. šŸŽÆ

Lyn advice is good advice.

You can’t avoid having problems but you can get better ones. I call these ā€œQuality Problemsā€.

Bring on the drama. I'm bored.

gr8 grand "if 1 chooses 2 fight aholes, they will fight a lifetime" t-y heritage!

Facts

Life is consciousness and consciousness is movement.

Interesting. What's your viewpoint on ignoring the trolls vs engaging them

Thoughts create reality, indeed.

Attitude works wonders

Life is life.

nana na nana :P

ā€œIf you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark that is all you will ever seeā€

Seek and ye shall find.

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