People are free to project whatever they want onto you and that’s not your concern.

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Yes. Maintain your frame of reference 👍

Learn to not let other's comments affect you be strong ❤️

People are actually the main concern for a person.

What are you suggesting I should be concerned about? Polar bears?

Retard

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jajja

Reminds me of a song,

“Don’t you mind people grinning in your face”

For the moment they all regret what they projected. Some said sorry, other paid an harsh price. Who cares.

What people think of you is not your business.

Your business is what you think of yourself.

And you're free to not allow them to project it onto you as well.

AKA

"I don't have to listen to your shit!"

Hold has literal AIDS from being gay with Ben.

Yes. Protect your peace 🧘‍♂️

Ready for an annoying response?

This note is a projection (you statement vs me statement)

Not annoying at all. All my notes are actually just me talking to myself.

Who is this?

It's still me, HODL. This is my cooler alt though. Sup sandy!

Ah thought you were you Hodl, makes sense that Hodl isn' t Hodl and Yodl is Hodl

It's freeing sometimes to use my alt. Everyone always trying to correct or 1up my main. Tiresome to have to even respond to the peasants.

😂

Keep killing it Hodl, this is just me talking to myself.

You know I will. Cardboard mall people can't keep me down.

This is exactly how I use Nostr. I just like yelling into the void

It’s the best way to do it

I assume any replies to my notes are from myself in another universe.

Most people do that privately. What drives the desire to do it publicly?

Public journaling invites resonance, and that’s where real connection or correction can happen.

Really? You not been on social media the last two decades?

Nope. Fuck social media.

I tell my kids all the time, “not caring what other people think is a superpower “

“It never ceases to amaze me: We all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.”

- Marcus Aurelius

Maybe they don't really love themselves after all if the latter is true.

If they project bodily fluids onto you, it may be your concern. Unless… you’re into that? Idk just let me know

What kinda bodily fluid we talking about?

Open to negotiate- I start at 6.15

You may be ahead of the curve, but just remember that there's a truck on your heels. While it's true that what people think of you is none of your business, you must remember that it will slow you down in achieving your goals and tarnish your reputation.

Make sure that bad vibes don't circulate around your personality, and that's how you'll come out on top.

You can only control what you do. Not how others perceive you.

Be impeccable with your word

Make no assumptions

Take nothing personally

💚🌀

Bang on as usual

🙏🏻

It's just the first 3 of the 4 agreements

Timeless wisdom, but you need to incorporate them into your existence to feel their power.

The last one is "always do your best" which softens the self judgement you feel when you forget them.

Please remind me of the 4 agreements? That's the podcast you got me to listen to once I think? My bad, not top of mind when you mention it

It's a short book. I sent you the narrated version.

Here's the PDF

https://files.addictbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/The-Four-Agreements.pdf

Thanks!

It is when their projections become collective delusion and these deluded people decide that a coordinated harassment campaign is a necessary "solution".

Totally agree. Had a serious experience of this over the last 6 months. People projecting their BS onto me. It’s hard to ignore. A really amazing part of life to invest in: one’s mindset

Well it depends how and if it triggers you.

Absolutely. People's projections—whether admiration, criticism, or misunderstanding—often say more about them than about you.

Your role isn't to manage their perceptions. It's to remain rooted in your values, actions, and clarity of purpose.

Let them project. You stay aligned.

Love this

Easier said than done of course

A constant endeavour to work towards

Water on a ducks ass. Rolls right off.

Right. You’re not responsible for how others choose to see you.