Yeah, that's why the Yin has a dot of Yang in it and vice versa. When I'm talking about shifting in one direction or another along the polarity spectrum, the shift is often consistent of 2 components which, to varying degrees dependent upon particulars, offset one another. For the sake of discussion, here's a totally arbitrary example: if you go plus 5 but minus 2, all we see is a net shift of +3. on your karma/polarity.

Also it is important to account for the thresholds. 50+% service to others is the threshold for positive harvest and 95+% service to self is the threshold for negative harvest. Some amount of service to self is expected...baked in...necessary. Frankly, someone who is so badass that they only need to serve themselves 1% of the time and can spend 99% of their time serving others is clearly "more Divine" than someone who is at 50.1% service to others and 49.9% service to self. This speaks to capabilities which are virtues as forms of power.

As I told nostr:nprofile1qy88wumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmv9uq3wamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwdehhxarj9e3xzmny9uqzp9kgwajajq93d86lmk9urxle00vvd5trlaqk4zw5tjahetzge9pnz0pukc recently, talking with other mystics is weird. We live on Earth as individual human beings and that's baked into the linguistic operating systems we use. To deny that isn't going to get anyone very far in the world. Try walking into a bank and telling them that Warren Buffett is really you because we're all one and security will be escorting you out of the bank in short order. So, we live with one foot in the real world and one foot in a based cosmology of unity. It's a really hard conversation to have so I usually don't bother with discussion of that apparent contradiction unless the other person is brand new to the concept and has never considered it before.

I don't know what your precise definition of fate is but I don't believe in fate as my definition of fate is directly contradictory to free will and without free will creation does not occur. Creation was not a one time event. It is an ongoing process. What people perceive as "fate" is coincidence, chance, karma, entropy, physics, etc. You are a creator as am I. We participate in the ongoing process of creation and in order to do so we exercise our will. Again, if you want to zoom out to the perspective of the One Infinite Creator, we can talk about how free will is a distortion but that's not really applicable to us living this life here now. Fate, as a concept, is a great way to rugpull motivation leading to a descent into general apathy, depression, and nihilism. Fate is a reductive boil down of a very complex equation and I don't like ignoring the nuance offered by the equation when attempting to establish causality.

We do agree on time being a sort of construct and that all time exists all of the time in the same way that a movie reel's frames all exist all the time but by displaying them in a certain order you get the illusion of time based action. This negates free will about as much as selecting a multiple choice response on a test negates free will. You're selecting from a pool of options, it's just that the pool is basically infinite instead of a, b, c, & d.

I think we're all evolving closer to Divinity so if someone can't deal with a life's struggles they need to become better and overcome in whatever ways they can. The Divine is all Wise, all Understanding, all Powerful, all Merciful, all Victorious, and all Glorious. Giving up because a mortal life was hard to bear is not wise, understanding, powerful, victorious, or glorious. It's merciful for about 2 seconds until the soul gets to the other side at which point it realizes what a huge mistake it has made.

Consider that, if you wanted to learn certain lessons in a particular incarnation but then you peace out, when you get back to the other side, you're still gonna want to learn those same lessons. Maybe you take a little time off between lives...maybe you save those lessons for 5 lives from now, but eventually you're going to put yourself into situations just like the one that you exited. Suicide is like punching yourself in the face. It does absolutely no good.

Dolores Cannon begs your attention. The concept of "imprints" is something that "residents" of higher densities can access to experience an incarnation that was originally lived by another soul. It's kind of like Blockbuster but for life experiences. You check out a movie. Bring it back, check out another one, etc. Sometimes these entities choose to actually incarnate in 3rd density but I could imagine that a wanderer/starseed would choose to live a few imprints on a particular planet as a particular self-aware species before actually incarnating.

In my post about siddhis/clairs, please note that I used lots of wiggle room words very intentionally, e.g. "I think...", "...could potentially...", and multiple instances of "...perhaps...". I'm usually pretty good about qualifying speculations as speculations.