im using lnbits nwcprovider. it lets you set the relays and/or make a relay multiplexer to handle the nwc.
Sadly, it doesn't look like nostr:nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7etyv4hzumn0wd68ytnvv9hxgtcppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qyw8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytf39ehxymewv9hxwctwdyhxxme0qy08wumn8ghj7mn0wd68yttsw43zuam9d3kx7unyv4ezumn9wshszymhwden5te0wp6hyurvv4cxzeewv4ej7qg4waehxw309aex2mrp0yhxgctdw4eju6t09uq3wamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwdehhxarj9e3xzmny9uq3wamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwwpexjmtpdshxuet59uq3jamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwwdhx7un59eek7cmfv9kz7qpqgetal6ykt05fsz5nqu4uld09nfj3y3qxmv8crys4aeut53unfvlqygds4v included a way to customize what relay Alby Hub uses for NWC connections, unless I am completely missing it somewhere.
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i want to try albyhub nwc but im still figuring out if i can use *just the nwc with my node
There's a NWC extension for LNBits now? Not seeing it listed in the extensions, unless it is built into one of the other Nostr related ones?
https://github.com/riccardobl/nwcprovider
and then looks like lnbits is in the process of making it official after 1.0
Got it. I imagine I will need to wait until then before it shows up in the list of extensions available in LNBits running on my Start9.

Oh LOL i see nostr:nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7cn9wehjumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgjwaehxw309ahx7um5wgerztnrdakj7qpq0npj3gydmv40m70ehemmal6vsdyfl7tewgvz043g54p0x23y0s8qsfwsa6 answered much more succinctly hehe
No its better to build it yourself. wait until V1.0 LNbits comes out and build from scratch on your hardware. I really strongly suggest you do this instead of depending on someone else's build because they will always fall behind.