There are bits in there we can find common groubd on. A few points of divergence:
Feminism is predicated upon egalitarianism, which is a poison to civilization and cuts against the grain of God's design for man and woman. And this is evidenced, in part, in a key point you make: that through technology women have achieved "liberation" from their reproductive biology.
Only through technological domination of nature have women done this, and have lost sight of their unique design and purpose in the world, their unique glory. They try to be "more like men" and lose themselves.
The technology of birth control gave women the illusion that they can deny one of the principle things that make them who they are. As if their biology is a prison and children are a punishment. It is such a perverse inversion of the truth that it ultimately leads to dehumanizing and destroying women and children. There is a through line from brith control to abortion, by the way.
There is also no such thing as "casual sex" or sex "free of risk". This is another modern lie that misunderstands the intended purpose of sex and under appreciates the second, third, and fourth order consequences of dislodging it from the covenant of marriage.
You mention fiat. I contend that feminism is fiat equality. Birth control is fiat liberation. And "casual sex" is fiat union. All are high time preference and rob men and women both of dignity.
