🤷🏻♂️ Sounds like we can stuff it in mempool now.
I get the desire for a nice system that has great answers for the latest changes, but they come with significant costs as well. I prefer and argue for a systems of independent, near-complete caches over a fancy network that knows where something lives.
Apparently the Damus relay had five hundred gigabytes of data – which means I could fit it all in RAM, twice. It's important to watch how constraints change over time