Honestly getting rugged by any lightning or ecash related tech seems to be the norm nowadays. Yet people say this technology is mature enough for everyday stable use. The coping is hard with everyone here on Nostr.

This is why we need to go back to our roots with good old fashioned OG bitcoin addresses as a safer alternative option for Nostr users. We are a long way off for the average person to use these technologies and call them trustworthy.