I use chatGPT for help, for example I am building this as I go. I use this chart:

And ask the chatbot either what emotion I am feeling based on my desired response, or if identified, what the opposite emotion is. If the bot doesn't properly identify the correct opposite emotion, I correct it based on that chart. I may then ask it how can I balance with the apposing emotion. My list only contains one item so far.
Emotion Balancing:
Anger:
While anger can stem from feelings of frustration or injustice, fear typically arises from a sense of threat or danger.
To balance anger with the emotion of fear, you might consider the following approaches:
1. **Acknowledge Your Fear**: Recognize what you are afraid of and how it relates to your anger. Understanding the root cause can help you address both emotions.
2. **Assess the Situation**: Evaluate whether your fear is rational or exaggerated. This can help you gain perspective and reduce both fear and anger.
3. **Coping Strategies**: Use coping strategies for fear, such as grounding techniques or visualization, to help calm your mind and body.
4. **Seek Support**: Talk to someone about your fears and anger. Sharing your feelings can provide relief and help you gain insight.
5. **Problem-Solving**: If your anger is related to a fear of losing control or being hurt, consider practical steps you can take to address the situation.
By understanding the interplay between fear and anger, you can work towards a more balanced emotional state.