Where's the DM spec changing?
You're right fam. Some of us are really working together though! I would definitely enjoy some meetups, although I think most of us are pretty sparse right now across the world, it's out of the budget for most of us to be flying all over the world to do these meetups too.
Specifically for DM's the encryption spec is changing weekly, honestly, I think it might be best for clients to just remove a DM feature until the spec gets worked out. The spec is moving WAY faster than developers can really keep up with. It needs it, but nostr development is at best, a side job without pay. Lots of peeps have families and a day job. IDK how were going to make this work, but I do know its going to take time, or lots of FOSS donations.
I do want to drop a few links to advertise some projects because we'd enjoy the collaboration.
https://github.com/vnuge/noscrypt - A C library for nostr cryptography (DM Encryption!)
https://github.com/buttercat1791/aedile-ndk - A C++ nostr devopment kit
There are a dozen other projects happening here: