There are almost countless times where I've warned a department/company that we were rowing quickly toward a waterfall, only to be ignored while people argue about which paddles to use to go faster.

Afterward, sometimes one or two will comment to everyone how I was right, but do the group listen the next time? In a vast majority of cases, they did not. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Ego man all ego

Let them come to you. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. You have to lead by example. Show those you care about that there's nothing to fear from the path you're taking, by being exhibiting a calm and gentle confidence that you can help then find if they desire to simply ask you for help.

Your achievements will not inspire most people to mimic your ways, either. Instead, they'll be offended by your offer of advice and critical of your methods. They'll criticize your arrogance and continue hurting themselves. It's very strange watching it unfold over and over.