Emotions are wild. I have too many right now and they get in the way of me trying to become a better woman.

I just want to be a good perrrrrrrson and grow spiritually, but I keep fucking up because of poor-impulse control.

#honesty

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All of us homie ๐Ÿ’œ

https://youtu.be/XqN2qFvY64U

Damn I never really listen to her, but she really does do a great job as a lyricist there

Chamomile Tea, STAT!!! โ˜•๐Ÿซจ

lol 2nd cup of coffee?

To work on yourself

You must first say it out loud,

The healing begins ๐Ÿซ‚

#haiku

๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅฐ

NOSTR support feels ๐Ÿ‘Š

Itโ€™s fucking awesome๐Ÿซ‚

๐Ÿ’ฏ

We got you!

And I got yall ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿค

Emotions are what we are, but can be used against us, so we must transcend when needed.

Native tribes used to catch monkeys by hollowing out a coconut and filling it with rice or other delicacies, then leaving it tethered to a tree for a monkey to find. A monkey would reach in and grab the desired delicacy and be trapped because the hole had been deliberately made just big enough for a flexible hand to enter but not for a closed fist to leave. In short order, the monkey went from getting his dinner to being someone elseโ€™s dinner.

Yeah I donโ€™t wanna be the stupid monkey with its hand trapped anymore ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿซ‚

Easiest way for me is distance myself from the tree. One day you can come back and laugh at it. ๐Ÿ˜‚

Absolutely. Get that damn tree away from me for now ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Whatโ€™s your favorite hobby? Asking you to ask yourself to do more of that โ€ฆ it helps. Also friend: BTDT so donโ€™t be hard on yourself. Your pace is always the right pace โ€ฆ ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚

Hmmm probably song and dance. And youโ€™re right, I donโ€™t do it enough ๐Ÿซ‚

Then time to turn on that music and get some energy flowing ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿปโœจ

Today is the day ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿค

I love this song to dance to :๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ”ฅ

https://youtu.be/FG1NrQYXjLU?feature=shared

#GetSum my friend. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ

It takes guts to be this honest and take accountability. You will get there, where ever you need to be. Everytime before a new upgrade you fuck up and then you rise higher then before. Keep trusting your journey. Lots of love to you! It is already great you have the intention to be a better version of yourself.

โค๐Ÿ˜˜

And if you need any help/support, I am here.

Thank you so much lovely lady. Iโ€™m excited to follow you now๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿซ‚

Thank you too!! You are welcome! So excited to be here and I just started here. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Š

Read more.. i find it helps! #bitcoincommunity #help

Yup. I gotta a fat stack (of books to read)

30 pages per day - itโ€™ll be pretty amazing how far you can go in 365 days lifestyle permitting ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป

Yup. I wanna combine it with some journaling. I used to do it everyday

My journal is NOSTR.. I just write whatever is on my mind at the point of posting

Before on the legacy social medias you could never do thatโ€ฆ

Thatโ€™s very true, but I get hella distracted by screens so sometimes I gotta go analog to focus ๐Ÿ˜‚

I havenโ€™t read a proper book in ages.. I prefer the old kindle on an iPad and then I can read multiple in one sitting! Iโ€™ve left a BITCOIN book on my desk at work and nobody has asked if they can read it..

Gave some books to youngsters within the business - guess what? They havenโ€™t even bothered to read them..

Everyone gets BTC at the price they deserve..

Impuls control things that makes you different from all others. I think you are a good person weird but good heartbeats puls a lot off Emotions and they need to be wild and creative and you got all of that!! ๐Ÿซฐ๐Ÿ˜‰ you got this ๐Ÿ’œ

Yesss. I definitely have some great qualities, but I donโ€™t always use them in the most positive ways so Iโ€™m trying to find my own way of being better ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅฐ

Music helps and just do you ๐Ÿซ‚๐ŸŽถ๐Ÿ”ฎ๐Ÿ–•๐Ÿ˜น

Yes it does. So so much

YOU GOT THIS ๐Ÿ’œ

Hey thanks my friend ๐Ÿซ‚

Awww I love you, sorry you feel this way. Feel all the feelings because bottling it up just creates pressure that builds until it explodes.

This too shall pass. Words everyone hates to hear, but true words nonetheless. This is just a phase of your life you have to get through to get to the next phase. We call it molting when the kid goes through it, he comes out the other side just a little bit different.

Sending hugs ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚

Omg bahaha Iโ€™m totally molting into a new snake ๐Ÿ˜‚

I love you babe, just gotta get through today ๐Ÿซ‚

๐Ÿ˜‚ shiny new snake ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ‰

sorry to hear fren ๐Ÿซ‚ Remember that emotions are not a tell-all and we have no control over them. We can only observe them and feel them and then choose to act on them if we decide to. Don't believe everything you think, and don't trust everything you feel. DMs are open if you ever wanna chat ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’™

Iโ€™m trying to reorganize my understanding and reactions to emotions. I used to be better at just observing and then life got kind of out of hand and I went back to default. Thank you my friend ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅฐ

It happens to everyone

Practice #Zen ... Where your mind has no quality, no attitudes etc

It doesnโ€™t happen overnight , youโ€™re probably making progress and not realizing , here is some random silly transitionary tricks until you get there

If you happen to be good with advising others but not yourself , start talking to yourself in third person , like you would reason with a friend you care about who is about to self sabotage

If you know the typical impulse you usually have , set speed bumps to it , like if itโ€™s texting make it harder to access , or a little game of making circles with youโ€™re tongue before speaking

Also this might not be emotions but it could be your nervous system constantly in fight or flight , have an object , a game or activity that would immediately act as an anchor anytime you touch it

If everything fails , immediate cold shower or submerge your face in icy water bowl , always works like a charm

Hope any of these helps , you got this ๐Ÿซ‚ ๐Ÿซ‚

Emotions, thoughts & actions all originate from our beliefs.

We've been led to believe that we are less than perfect. That we're unworthy of love & happiness unless we do X or achieve Y.

I've found that my own judgement prevented me from loving myself & others fully. Try to be a little more compassionate with yourself. Earth is a tough school that few souls are brave enough to experience.

Know that you're worthy of love & of existing. If you weren't, you wouldn't exist.

We all have our heavy days. These are the days when I generally don't say a lot.

๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿซ‚

Enjoy the ride โœŒ๐Ÿป

Don't give up. It's a lifetime journey, one step at a time.

I relate even as a man