I get where you’re coming from. I used to be an Apple girl.
Apple does privacy well by default, but it’s a model that assumes Apple itself is trusted.
You get strong defaults, but only if you’re comfortable with Apple sitting in the middle.
iOS is closed-source end-to-end, the baseband is opaque, App Store control is absolute, and a lot of data handled by Apple services is still accessible to Apple.
We’ve already seen how this plays out—Apple admitted that contractors were listening to real Siri recordings, including private conversations, and had to backtrack after public backlash. That’s the trust model in practice.
Apple also uses user data to advertise—just differently than Google. Google’s model is third-party and ecosystem-wide; Apple’s is first-party and vertically integrated. Different mechanics, same outcome: your behavior is still being used to influence and monetize you, just internally.
GrapheneOS is built around a different assumption: minimize trust in any single party, harden the OS, reduce attack surface, and give the user explicit control over isolation, permissions, and data flow.
Apple offers strong baseline privacy within boundaries Apple defines. GrapheneOS is for people whose threat model includes the platform vendor itself—not because Apple is uniquely bad, but because trust minimization is the goal.
I miss my iPhone ngl, I don't know why I got rid of it
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...not because Apple is uniquely bad...scoff scoff...😉
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There are definitely trade offs, I admit that, but for me the trade off is worth it. The integration with their other hardware products, for example. I bought a beats pill a couple weeks ago, at the time not knowing Apple had acquired it. Now I have a whole new option integrated right into the setting menu, with a lot more customization than I had with the motion+.
I know that sounds like a little thing, but all of those little things add up to a rather enjoyable experience. They also do animations and theming better. Again, little things.
I was with you on this for many years, but the hostility of the US tech industry, and the worsening stability of otherwise superficially buttery smooth and expertly designed animated UIs made me question my allegiance. Once I tried to get off and realised how walled-in I was — of course all of the nice "integrated" Apple experiences lack data portability — that was the nail in the coffin for me. Horses for courses.
I think it’s important to know as much as you can about a platform if you’re looking to join it. I knew what Apple stood for, I laughed at them for years from the other side of the fence. I’m just at a point in my life where I am looking for something a bit simpler to use. It’s also the first device where I felt like I was getting my money’s worth.
If I’m being honest, the only device that has a chance of getting me back to Android, would be the ROG, those devices are spec’d out and ASUS is a company I have never bought from. All of the big name companies I have already used and for one reason or another, I moved on. The last Android device I had was the P4XL and it didn’t take me long to realize that their hardware products are trash.
And again, because Android is horribly optimized and highly unsecure, I always had cut software on them, and since the custom ROM scene is pretty much dead, there was no benefit for me to stay with them.
At the end of the day, what works for me may not work for others and vice versa, but it still doesn’t change anything about my original reply.
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My reaction when Apple talks about being privacy-focused.

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