So long as their lack of fucksgiving comes from a place of strength, such as being comfortable with who they are. What I see most of the time is that it comes from nihilism or a desperate attempt to look hard, and I don't envy those people at all. The latter is a facade and the former takes time to cultivate

I'm still shedding some people-pleasing tendencies myself. I used to strive for being as likable as can be, but eventually I realized that I have expensive taste in people lol. Easier to be myself and let that serve as a filter. Can't put a price on serenity