Tirade time:

My parents moved my stuff from where I had it in a safe place, allowed water to be spilled (by my cats who knock it off the window sill) on to my box of BRAND NEW SHOES that have been molding for MONTHS.

Then when confronted about it I was lied to, told that a building made of CEMENT AND CONCRETE LEAKED through the floor so destroyed my shoes. I looked around then told I was being ridiculous when nothing else was damaged in the same area as my shoes that I know have been there longer. The box with my shoes was the ONLY thing moist/moldy

I've literally NEVER worn these shoes outside of my residence before because I'm still learning to walk in heels. They're absolutely ruined, the mold started eating the leather and I'm trying not to be attached to material things but I've already (in my mind) lost everything, I'm tired of losing the things I meticulously took care of.

I'm not going to be reimbursed or apologized to for it. I'm so tired of being DARVO'd/Lied/manipulated by people who don't have the emotional intelligence to even speak true about themselves. So when I point out the obvious I'm called a liar and over dramatic, since two people will back one another.

I've gotten almost everything that I could out of my parents, including one of my therapy animals. I was forced to leave some things behind because my mother and aunt refuse to go anywhere without each other so there wasn't enough space for me to get all my belongings.

#rant #fashiondisaster #NarccisticFamily

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Everything is for a reason. You were not meant to wear those shoes. The universe was protecting you from a broken ankle maybe. Accept it and smile and have an awesome day. 🧡💜🫂

Thnx Bevo, I just am so tired of being disrespected by the person/people that raised me.

Time to grind so I never have to speak to them again (except to get my other cat).

Don’t be a victim. Two sides to every coin. Onwards

Bevo I love you, but respectfully fuck you.

I'm allowed to be a victim and there's no other side to this coin mate.

Yeah, onwards to better things but it's okay to be upset.

Pretty sure if I came and broke your coffee machine you just fixed, you'd have a few things to say to me.

life is short. I recommend to give your parents the benefit of doubt. Holding a grudge will not benefit you. Not knowing you or your parents, I hope y'all work it out. ✌️🧡

Giving my parents the benefit of the doubt has almost killed me. Learned my lesson.

I won’t hold a grudge, it’s “not their fault” for being abusive idiots.

It doesn’t mean I have to forgive them.

It’s working itself out right now. I’m where I’m welcome and aren’t treated/seen as the “mistake”.

I'm sorry. I haven't walked in your shoes. No pun intended. I had a problem with my family and didn't have anything to do with them for a few years. I finally had to let it go. Families can be difficult. No judgment from me. Whatever gives you peace of mind and gets you through the night. All the best and take care.

đź«‚I appreciate you KingBee

Ease up B. Just trying to put a different perspective on it. But yes being upset is ok just don’t stay there too long 🫂

TLDR: videos of the difference between how I take care of my property vs how my parents take care of my property.

Lemme preface this:

I was upset not over just shoes but the continued cycle of several types of abuse from my family. It doesn't matter what I lose because if it doesn't affect them directly, it doesn't matter. (Many people operate this way and you should look at yourselves). Even when confronted with the facts the narcissistic codependent tendencies my family will refuse to acknowledge because a narcissist can never be wrong.

I've lost so much stuff because of my parents inability to provide ME stability as a child so as an adult I have no idea what that looks like outside of taking care of the things which are given/provided/or bought for myself.

Some parents are legitimately JEALOUS of their children and ruin things on purpose.

It's a DISRESPECT thing at this point. I don't care how old I am or who I'm talking/dealing with, if you can't respect me I can't respect you. The Lord/Universe will forgive me for not respecting my parents, never giving them the benefit of the doubt, or even really caring what happens to them. They had every chance make sure wasn't a burden (abortion, adoption, etc)

So here's a video difference on how I treat my stuff VS how I'm treated:

Note: It is nearly IMPOSSIBLE for me to find shoes so when I am able to find some that fit my style and are cute.

https://video.nostr.build/a95d6a7ee5b055a47229f61de49a8e91de2caade7b83fa228dccc4e58e13bb89.mp4 https://video.nostr.build/12773a635279cd554303e34ef1b4808d9c2b2b0efa9724923420f23f8fad9cff.mp4

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