Gender wars are dumb.
Anytime you find yourself on an app with an algo feeding you “all men are trash” or “all women are sluts” then it’s time to log off.
There are bad men and there are bad women. Most people are trying their best to do the right things.
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That's what I call "dividi et impera" algo, always looking for duality and fights between two sides..
We are humans.
But people on the internet, confident by the mask they have in form of their profile, love clinging to the extremes, basically forgetting about existance of the between.
There are extremes. Always will be. But we can't define the general population by only viewing the extremes.
Agreed! Some people just say nonsense, we need both genders in society. I can't believe some people are stupid enough to say that one gender is not required for their survival. 🙄
the idea that this set of emotions and actions belongs to men and another set belongs to women is a fallacy. as humans, we all have access to the full human experience. i have met as many women who are emotionally immature as i have men; and as many of both who are well put together adults of both. i've met many women who are cruel and many men who are as well; and as many of each who are kind hearted and mature. this narrative has divided people for far too long.
as a young (gay/male) child i turned away from this idea, not to be more girly or anything like that, but to be true to my self, my feelings, and how i interacted with the world. it has served me well.
this conceptualized gender division is very old and lately it has been getting very loud.
Robert Johnson (Jungian psychologist/analyst) discusses some of the origins of it in his 3 books: "He", "She", and "We". i think all 3 are free public domain now.
good post @HODL
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I have seen some IG post that if you look at the comments from my GF account and they are outrage to the opposite of what I see.
Fuck this apps.
